{"id":65702,"date":"2017-08-31T03:01:28","date_gmt":"2017-08-31T03:01:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ujkafe.website\/?p=65702"},"modified":"2017-08-28T11:13:06","modified_gmt":"2017-08-28T11:13:06","slug":"naszta-katalin-nevetes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ujkafe.website\/?p=65702","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e1szta Katalin: nevet\u00e9s"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\/\u00c9rtelmez\u0151 k\u00e9zi sz\u00f3t\u00e1ramb\u00f3l\/<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ami boldogan nevettet, \u00e9s boldogg\u00e1 tesz \u2013 az kell. Nem a kinevet, hanem a benevet. Benevet t\u00e9ged oda, ahol \u0151 van, abba a k\u00f6zegbe, hangulatba, \u00f6r\u00f6mbe. Ha kinevet, akkor a komfortz\u00f3n\u00e1db\u00f3l \u2013 milyen cs\u00fanya sz\u00f3 ez \u2013 p\u00f6ck\u00f6l ki, mint aki ut\u00e1lkozik hozz\u00e1d \u00e9rni, de m\u00e9g sem \u00e1tall.<!--more--><br \/>\nHa kacag\u00e1s\u00e1val benevet saj\u00e1t tiszta \u00f6r\u00f6m\u00e9be, egy\u00fctt \u00e1tnevethetitek a dolgot, ami felett egy\u00fctt nevettek.<br \/>\nAz igazi nevet\u00e9s fel\u00fcl emel a neh\u00e9zs\u00e9gen, r\u00e1mutat a probl\u00e9ma kisszer\u0171s\u00e9g\u00e9re. Ami ett\u0151l rendszerint meg is sz\u0171nik. A bajokat kell kinevetni, az ijesztget\u00e9seket, a fenyeget\u0151z\u00e9st.<br \/>\nA j\u00f3 humor kigy\u00f3gy\u00edt. Az igazi humor mindig j\u00f3. Mert nevet\u00e9s k\u00f6zben ugyan f\u00e1jhat a sz\u00edv, de gy\u00f3gyul is. K\u00f6nnyebben, hamarabb.<br \/>\nA j\u00f3 nevet\u00e9s hangsz\u00edne sosem s\u00e9rt\u0151, nem er\u0151ltetett. Senkit nem b\u00e1nt. Azonnal felismered, hogy sz\u00edvb\u0151l j\u00f6n, mert mag\u00e1val ragad. Egy kiad\u00f3s nevet\u00e9s ut\u00e1n, mint aki j\u00f3t f\u00fcrd\u0151z\u00f6tt, frissen indulsz tov\u00e1bb.<br \/>\nJ\u00f3 nevet\u00e9sekre m\u00e1r eml\u00e9kezve is utol\u00e9r a kacag\u00e1s ingere. A t\u00f6rt\u00e9net, a sztori ugyanazzal a kellemes \u00e9rz\u00e9ssel t\u00f6lt el.<br \/>\nVannak, lehetnek rossz nevet\u00e9sek? K\u00e9nyszeredett, kik\u00e9nyszer\u00edtett, nevet\u00e9st ut\u00e1nz\u00f3k? Mindennek rug\u00f3ja a sz\u00edv, onnan sz\u00e1rmaznak a dolgok.<br \/>\nAmikor \u00e9rzed, hogy valami\u00e9rt nevet, valamit el akar \u00e9rni vele \u2013 hamis. Abban ott a k\u00f6r\u00f6m fekete.<br \/>\nAz igaziban nincs ilyen. Az kibuggyan, kifakad, kirobban, kit\u00f6r, nem lehet visszatartani. S\u0151t. Min\u00e9l ink\u00e1bb akarod, ann\u00e1l kev\u00e9sb\u00e9 siker\u00fcl. \u00c9s ragad\u00f3s. \u00c1tragad a m\u00e1sikra, aki hallja, \u00e9s egy\u00fctt nevet a metr\u00f3, a busz, a villamos minden utasa, az utc\u00e1n, a sorban, b\u00e1rhol. Ahol vissza akarj\u00e1k fojtani, ott \u00e9rdemes f\u00fclelni, ott a forr\u00e1spont, ahonnan inni lehet. Nevet\u00e9sb\u0151l, kacag\u00e1sb\u00f3l, hahot\u00e1z\u00e1sb\u00f3l, ami sosem csap \u00e1t r\u00f6h\u00f6g\u00e9sbe, mert nincs benne k\u00f6r\u00f6m fekete. Semmi.<br \/>\n\u00d6nmag\u00e1n lehet az embernek a leg\u00f6nfeledtebben nevetni. \u00c9s soha nem egyed\u00fcl. Kell a r\u00e9szv\u00e9tel. Kell a m\u00e1sik n\u00e9z\u0151pont. Kell hozz\u00e1 m\u00e9g egy ember. Legal\u00e1bb.<\/p>\n<p><em>2017-08-17<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\/\u00c9rtelmez\u0151 k\u00e9zi sz\u00f3t\u00e1ramb\u00f3l\/ Ami boldogan nevettet, \u00e9s boldogg\u00e1 tesz \u2013 az kell. Nem a kinevet, hanem a benevet. Benevet t\u00e9ged oda, ahol \u0151 van, abba a k\u00f6zegbe, hangulatba, \u00f6r\u00f6mbe. Ha kinevet, akkor a komfortz\u00f3n\u00e1db\u00f3l \u2013 milyen cs\u00fanya sz\u00f3 ez \u2013 p\u00f6ck\u00f6l ki, mint aki ut\u00e1lkozik hozz\u00e1d \u00e9rni, de m\u00e9g sem \u00e1tall.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-65702","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-jegyzet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ujkafe.website\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65702","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ujkafe.website\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ujkafe.website\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ujkafe.website\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ujkafe.website\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=65702"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ujkafe.website\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65702\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ujkafe.website\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=65702"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ujkafe.website\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=65702"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ujkafe.website\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=65702"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}